Are you satisfied with monogamy? Are you in a marriage that you want to continue, but also want relationships with other people? Do you want the stability of a long-term partner and the excitement of dating new people? Are you in an open relationship already and having challenges making it work?
Did you know...
- There's a 70% chance a spouse will engage in an affair over the course of a marriage
- Infidelity among women has increased by nearly 40% over the past two decades
- 1 in 5 single Americans has engaged in some form of open relationship
- 4% of American couples are in an open relationship
If you're feeling stuck in your monogamous relationship or overwhelmed about how to make an open relationship work, I'm here to help.
I've been in open relationships for 20 years, and I've experienced a lot. I've also coached many people over the years, helping them overcome challenges and feel more fulfilled. I've learned how to really listen and guide people to make real improvements in their lives.
Monogamy doesn't work for everyone.
Open relationships can lead to a wonderful life full of love, support, sex, new experiences, fun, and connection. Being in an open relationship is not always easy, but it's worth the effort.
Rigid definitions of friend, partner, or spouse do not always serve us well. Fulfilling your true wants and needs means transcending these definitions.
It is natural to be attracted to more than one person. It's also possible to act on these attractions in an ethical way. This is the path to freedom, autonomy, and fulfillment.
But open relationships are not all upside. There are trade-offs. Being aware of the trade-offs will allow you to navigate open relationships much more easily.
I can help you avoid common mistakes, overcome challenges, and get more of what you want by coaching you based on my decades of experience.
Here are some examples of what I can help with
- Getting clear on what you really want in your relationships
- Overcoming challenges in your existing relationships
- Finding new people to connect with in different ways
- Dealing with jealousy
- Handling conflicts between partners
- Incompatibility between you and your partners
- Time management in open relationships
- Sex and intimacy needs and concerns
- Improving communication between you and your partners
- Learning to ask for what you want
- Love languages and attachment styles
- Relationship structures - hierarchy, enmeshment, solo, or create-your-own